Joy Ogah, a woman from Nigeria, has taken an unexpected approach to establishing her boundaries in her marriage and putting an end to the problem of infidelity.
She established a WhatsApp group and invited women who she believes to be her spouse Chinedu’s mistresses and girlfriends.
The wife could be heard advising all the alleged side chicks to avoid her husband in a trending voice note of the group conversation that emerged online.
She vowed to deal with any of the individuals in the group known as “Chinedu’s sidechics” who persisted in having an affair with him.
Some of the ladies expected and shock and claimed not to know who her husband or who she is, so the woman posted her wedding picture in the chat.
She attempted to shame them by referring to all the ladies as cheap call girls and she noted that the picture was to show that she was indeed married to him.
One of the ladies mocked her by saying she should have named the group ‘My husband and co-wives’.
Pastor’s wife finds out after 10 years of marriage that her husband has another family
A woman who married a pastor has described how she discovered after ten years that her husband was already married and had children.
She described how, while they were married, her husband claimed that God had called him and left her to support the family on her own.
She made the crucial discovery about his first marriage and made the decision to end the marriage and obtain an annulment.
In her words:
“After my marriage was annulled, This was me October 3 years ago after I discovered the so called man of God I got married to has been legally married in his home town with kids. And he lived a fake life with me for 10 good years.
“A pastor that deflowered me on our wedding night. Hmmmmmmm and still had the guts to keep his past from me.
“Thank God for exposing him. I had been the one sustaining-d family while he refused to work said God galled him. Singles pls shine your eyes well.
“Before marriage, prayer is good investigations well on who u are spending the rest of ur life with. See ehn, this man ruined my dreams, visions, talents, gifts but thank God I came out alive.”
