A Nigerian pastor named Apostle Okose Emmanuel is making waves on the internet with his recent guidance for married women.
In a TikTok video he posted online, the pastor suggested that unless a woman transitions from being just a wife to becoming her husband’s side chic, he will continue to cheat.
He emphasized that men desire a lady who can provide them with a more passionate and romantic relationship similar to what a side chic offers.
The pastor also raised a question to women about why their husbands choose to leave them for other women who do not even show them respect.
In his words, “No man needs a wife. Every man needs a side chic. Let me explain. Until you graduate from being a wife into a side chic, your husband or boyfriend will never stop cheating. You must understand that he that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing.”
“You are not a wife because you are married. You are a wife because you are found. You must understand that there are characteristics that side chics have. Ask yourself a question, why will a man leave his respectful wife and go be with a side chic who doesn’t respect him? Why will a man leave a woman who gives him peace and be with a side chic that gives him all the bills.”
“Men love to be with women that make them work because men are hunters. You must be a bad girl…The way you dress, you need to have swag, you need to have that touch of ashawo vibes, that touch of a prostitute vibes”.
The video quickly gained tractions online as social media users shared their thoughts via comment section. Some reactions are shown below:
Maame Kay said, “At this point we are tired of all these plenty lessons… may the Holy Spirit should lead us and take over our homes when we marry🙏🏽”.
Nice-Couple said, “Hope my wife is listening to”.
Dini Amorapowers said, “Note there’s no formula to keep a man who doesn’t want to be kept”.
vasty said, “As a woman, do not focus on keeping a man. focus on yourself. love urself like there is no tomorrow.”
Belina said, “Problem is when you graduate, you also attract other men ooo”.
