A Nigerian woman commemorates the fourth anniversary of her fiancé’s decision to cancel their wedding, which stemmed from her refusal to permit her mother-in-law to reside with them.
A Nigerian woman commemorates the fourth anniversary of her fiancé’s decision to cancel their wedding, which stemmed from her refusal to permit her mother-in-law to reside with them.
She wrote: “Today made it exactly 4years my ex fiancé called off our engagement because of my opinion\ a comment i made on a blog about the fact that i wouldn’t want my mother in-law live with me and my husband in our matrimonial home when i get married. My ex fiancé was not okay about that my opinion and he called off our engagement.
At first, I was sad about it, regretted making the comment after 2days, immediately i realized that the comment was my reality, my choice amd my truth!
Such mindset and opinion may not be okay with everyone but it’s my own truth, even up till now!
The irony of the whole thing is that, even my own biological mother is not even allowed to live in my matrimonial home! I will be more than happy to rent a house for my mother in-law or my mother and always renew the rent than have any of them live with me and my husband because I love my own space and privacy alot!
I will even be willing to hire a house help if needed to ensure they’re okay and well taken care of instead of any of them moving in with me. I will love and care for them but not in my own matrimonial home.
Just visit when you want, stay as much as you want and go after your visitation, Don’t live permanently with me in my matrimonial home pls. Exceptions can be made for health conditions.”
