- A Nigerian woman has publicly expressed her severe abuse in her marriage, including frequent beatings and lock-outs after a miscarriage.
- She shared her emotional experience on her TikTok page, highlighting the struggles of many women in abusive marriages.
A Nigerian woman has taken to social media to express her anguish regarding the severe abuse she has endured in her marriage. She disclosed that her husband frequently assaults her, even during her pregnancy, and once left her locked outside after she experienced a miscarriage.
In a heartfelt post on her TikTok account, she shared her personal narrative, highlighting the challenges faced by many women who find themselves in abusive relationships.
She elaborated on the reasons why some women manage to escape such situations, while others remain trapped due to fear, financial constraints, or worries about their children.
Tragically, she emphasized that some women do not survive these circumstances.
She wrote:
“A lot of women are in abusive marriages, and the reason they are still there is because of their kids, not knowing where to go, and wondering how they will care for their children.”“If you’re a woman going through abuse, I understand — it’s not easy. It took me 4 years to realize that you can never change an abuser. No matter how much you try, it’s impossible.”
“Instead, they keep destroying you. Some women manage to leave in their 20s, some never leave, and some aren’t lucky enough to leave alive. Many women are victims just like me, and when children are involved, leaving becomes even harder.”
“As for me, I am leaving. People will say I’m leaving because of another man, but that’s not true. They’re also threatening to take my children from me if I leave, but I have to save myself.”
In reply to a comment on her post, she disclosed the traumatic experiences she faced: “A man that beats me when I’m pregnant? A man that hits a new mom? A man that locks his wife out after a miscarriage? God will judge you.”
As her poignant narrative spread across the internet, many individuals expressed their concern in the comments, providing support, encouragement, and advocating for justice.
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Reacting to the post…
Modi_Olonje: “It’s not because of your Kids, it’s because you like being a victim and don wants to work.”
iamlight: “Save yourself!!! Your children will understand when they grow. Leave the kids with him and fix your life.”
ENNY: “what did you do to him, because in every reaction there must be an action.”
Ghosted: “If I am to advice you, making this video while you still in his house is wrong…. You shouldn’t let him know your next move it’s risky, if I was you I would act calm and vanish with my kids.”
Lucy J: “He also hit his child what a demon, you are going to leave or you have left.”
Annabel: “My friend was in abusive relationship. Gave birth to 2 kids without any dowry I asked her to leave but she didn’t listen cus of her kids ..today she’s dead and has left the kids behind.”
jaynieyech55: “When u are ready you will leave to live. For now keep making excuses.”
Affordable Luxury Hair Vendor: “Madam I left at the age of 22 years old, i went back to my parents house with my two daughters. They were a year plus and two years as at that time.”
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