“A woman can’t be submissive if she is s3x starved, married to a disrespectful man” – Nigerian lawyer shares

• Ilavbare Rahmatulai, a Nigerian lawyer, asserts that a woman cannot be submissive if she is starved, unappreciated, and married to a disrespectful man.
• A Muslim, mother, grandmother, attorney, Chartered Mediator, and conciliator shared her personal life on Facebook on October 2, 2024.

A Nigerian attorney, Ilavbare Rahmatulai, has asserted that a woman cannot exhibit submissiveness if she is deprived of sexual fulfillment, serves as the unacknowledged provider for her family, and is married to a disrespectful partner.

In her Facebook post dated Wednesday, October 2, 2024, the individual, who identifies as a Muslim, mother, grandmother, attorney, and chartered mediator and conciliator, expressed these views. Her post is as follows:

A married woman cannot be submissive if she is:

1. Married to a disrespectful and inconsiderate man.
2. The unappreciated breadwinner.
3. Sex starved.

Submission comes naturally to a woman married to a good man, rich or poor.

In other news, Former Big Brother Africa contestant and winner of the 2011 season, Karen Igho, appears to be experiencing significant distress, as indicated by her recent posts on her official X account.

In her messages on the microblogging platform, the former GOTV ambassador recounted the troubling circumstances she has faced within her marriage.

Karen Igho revealed that her husband, Yaroslav Rakos, whom she married in 2014, has left her without a home and has subjected her to both physical and sexual abuse.

She further expressed concerns that he intends to take their children from her as they approach divorce proceedings. Karen Igho emphasized that if anything were to happen to her, her husband should be held accountable. She stated:

“I’m going through a divorce with my husband, I have been homeless for a year and I have been hurt sexually and physically so if anything happens ask or hold the man who brought me to a country where and I know no one,he is trying to take children away by saying I’m mentally sick”

“God Almighty bless Nigeria and Africa my heart pray for your daughter of the soil, I have been through so much this past year, please African pray for my children and I In case you don’t you hear from me again know that I have been killed, am not sick mentally and don’t do drugs.”

Karen and Yaroslav Rakos were in a relationship for nine years before marrying in December 2014 in Jos, Plateau State. Karen emerged victorious in Big Brother Africa in 2011.