“Don’t cheat back when your husband cheats” – Nigerian woman advises wives

A Nigerian woman known as Mama J has spoken out against wives who respond to their cheating husbands by being unfaithful themselves, sparking a lot of discussion online.

In a popular video, she, who seems to be a relationship coach, stated that these wives are also being unfaithful and lack the wisdom to maintain their families.

Mama J emphasized that a good wife should act like a mother to her husband, helping him change his ways instead of participating in wrongdoing.

She also mentioned that wives play a key role in shaping their husbands’ behavior.

In her words, “You don’t have wisdom. You married that man to be his helper. Even if he is a cheater, you need to help him in that area. You are responsible for his upbringing too. Don’t you know you are his mother?”

The woman caused a big stir, with social media users flooding the comment section to share their views.

Read some comments as you scroll down:

@arikeeee_ said, “Just because you settle for less doesn’t mean this generation will follow that step ma👏 We are in 2024 now”.

@officialchiamaka said, “Mummy biko do well to post your son’s photos so sisters can avoid them”.

@kamtokene said, “Don’t train ur son,continue waiting for someone daughter to turn into a rehabilitation center”.

@adedoyin.oyin said, “Kind Reminder mummy, This is 2024, not 1930.T for Thanks.”

@grace_emmanuel_52 said, “We live in a world where parents focus on training their female kids for marriage forgetting to train the male. So it is my responsibility to to train a man that refused to be tamed? Hei, this generation is up to nothing 😢”.

@arikeeee_ said, “Just imagine this kind of woman as your mother in- law😂😂😂😂 Your own don finish be that”.

Watch the video below: