“I was a virgin but my marriage still ended” – Lady says virginity benefits only husbands

Thato Jessica, a young lady, has bemoaned how she ended up divorced despite being a virgin when she married her husband.

The divorcee remarked this on Twitter while debating if virginity benefits the man in a union more than the woman.

She, on the other hand, stated that her reality does not change the fact that a woman who refrains from sexual engagement retains her value.

Jessica wrote; “I was a virgin wife and my marriage still ended, let’s be real, virginity benefits the husband more than the wife in many ways.. but we can’t take away the truth that a woman who is abstaining is more likely to maintain her value, be a virgin for yourself and not for a future man.

They use this virginity as a way of shaming women and yet biologically the hymen doesn’t support ‘virgin idea’ only the woman knows if they are a virgin.”

Reactions….

A Twitter user @motshetshex commented; Man are afraid to date a woman who has been with other many men because they are scared of been shamed by men. They would rather tell women to behave a certain way in order for them to not be shamed. They don’t care about your past, they care about their integrity. Being a…

In reaction @thato_jessica; “Thank you for this! Women need to understand that being married a virgin isn’t for you as the woman… it’s for the man.. problem is society and religion will make you believe that virgin wife = successful/lasting marriage”

Another @nkagisa_ng asked; I hope this is not an offensive question but was your former husband a virgin when you guys got married?

@thato_jessica replied; “Not offensive, I believe he was not… come to think of it, we we’re really taught to disregard a man’s virginity 🤔”

One @Jayden_Tha also asked; How was your character in that marriage. That plays a part as well in staying in the marriage. If your character was horrible, and you only had virginity with you, surely you wouldn’t stay in that marriage