“I’m in love but unhappy” – Man seeks for advice over baby mama who threatens to cheat if he doesn’t fund her extravagant lifestyle

• An unknown man shared his experience on social media to seek advice.

• The baby mama consistently exceeds her financial means and expects him to cover her extravagant lifestyle.

A man seeks for advice over baby mama, who lives above her means and threatens to cheat on him if he doesn’t give her money to fund her extravagant lifestyle.

The unidentified man shared his story on social media in the hopes of receiving advice.

He claims that the baby mama always lives beyond her means and that she counts on him to provide the money for her extravagant lifestyle.

He claimed that the lady threatens to cheat on him if he says no, which makes him want to meet her demands even more.

The man said that he regrets having a child with her and that he doesn’t want anyone else to raise it. He also said that he loves her very much and that his heart  always opposes whenever he wants to leave her.

He asked online users for their opinions on what to do.

His words …

“Hi Auntie Momoza.
Anonymous please to protect my identity. I have a girlfriend that lives beyond her affordability and expects me to fund it. When I refuse she threatens to cheat. She works at a fake furniture shop owned by a Pakistan but she says she only drinks Ice Tropez. That time her salary can only buy 12 Ice Tropez. She wants to wear expensive things and use latest iPhone which I must fund. My regret is having a child with her because she doesn’t mind sacrificing the child’s future for her to look cool on Insta and Tiktok. In December I gave her money to buy our child a laptop and she used it to go to Durban with her stockvel friends. She didn’t even feel guilty about it. The sad part is I love her. Every time I try to leave her my heart refuses. And I don’t want another man to raise my child. I’m in love but unhappy. I don’t know what to do.”