“I’m Tired Of Dating”- Nigerian Lady Asks Her Mother To Find Her A Husband

• A Nigerian woman is seeking an unconventional method for finding a life partner by allowing her mother to choose a husband for her.
• She is frustrated with the early stages of dating, particularly the “talking stage.”
• The woman announced her decision on X, indicating her desire for an arranged marriage.

A Nigerian woman has decided to take an unconventional approach to finding a life partner by entrusting her mother with the responsibility of choosing a husband for her. Frustrated with the early stages of dating, she has opted for an arranged marriage instead.

She shared her decision on X (formerly Twitter), expressing her exhaustion with the “talking stage”—the initial phase of getting to know someone before a relationship becomes serious.

In her post, she stated that she has officially delegated the process to her mother, allowing her to screen potential suitors and introduce her to a suitable match when the time comes.

“I’ve given my mom the green light to find me a husband. I can’t handle the talking stage anymore. She can take care of that and hand him over when it’s time,” she wrote.

Elaborating on her decision, she explained that her mother would be more objective in evaluating suitors and might make a better choice than she would on her own.

“She will vet better; people will be more honest with her. Her choice might actually be the best. I even sent out an official notice on WhatsApp—now they can get to work,” she added.

Her post quickly went viral, sparking conversations on social media, with many users sharing their thoughts on her unique approach to finding love.

See some reactions below:

@CHI_funmii: “Actually, arranged marriage isn’t even ask bad as people make it out to be..”

@AmicableMercy: “Can she enter the talking stage for two, just asking for a sister.”

@rollin_dollars: “Told my aunt same when she asked me on my birthday😂. Arrange man, don’t stress me.”

@Ariesbarbie12: “You should at least vet and also know if you’re compatible with them oh.”

@Uniquemiracle5: “Wahala Dey oooo. Wetin person never see for this street of twitter. Remember you sign up for it don’t use anonymous message to disturb people later.”

@amaranweke4: “Lemme borrow this hack too,lemme go and tell my Mum to do for me too with specifications.”

@teminiikan: “Na wetin go finally end my matter but my dad will be doing this instead of my mum.”

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