You Think Single = Unhappy: Having a man won’t make you happy. That has to come from within.
Ohh, I hate that so many women believe that if they’re single, they’re incomplete or unhappy. There are so many reasons to be content as a single person.
You Follow Feelings, Not Logic in Your Emotional Attachment.
You Get Distracted by “Shiny” Male Qualities: It’s easy to get distracted by a guy’s superficial features, but be wary of those features convincing you that you’re in love. (Though, ladies, you’re not proving me wrong about this superficial stuff; recent research shows that women still prefer men with “muscles and money.” C’mon, gals! Give the rest of us a chance!)
As you spend more time with him, ask yourself: is this love? When you look at him, do you feel love? Or are there things you try to ignore that would otherwise tell you that this isn’t the one?
If so, start listening to your instinct. It wants the best for you.
Set your standards high. Love, when it’s real, feels right.
