A Nigerian lady has revealed why she called off her engagement two months before her wedding date.
The lady, known on X as @diaryofa9jagirl, said that she ended her engagement without paying attention to all the money had been spent and refunded everyone who bought her Aso Ebi.
According to her, she made the right decision because she was getting married for the wrong reasons and realized she couldn’t go on.
Her words reads: “Broke off my engagement two months to the wedding. Hall paid for, popular comedian paid for, part payment for popular musician paid for. Vera Wang wedding dress paid for. Broke things off without thinking of all of that and returned everyone’s aso ebi money. I was getting married for the wrong reasons and I just couldn’t continue. I made one of the best decisions of my life.
“It wasn’t. Had to leave the country for a while to sit by the beach in Hawaii. Needed time alone to forgive myself.
“Because I was going to clock 30 and I don’t know who put it in my head that I had to be married at that time or it would be socially unacceptable to be unmarried at 30. When I complained to an older friend that it didn’t feel right because not only was I not in love but I had no rest in my spirit, she said I’d fall in love inside the marriage but to never let 30 pass me by. So I stayed despite the fact that he was a pathological liar and extremely untrustworthy.”
In other news, a Nigerian woman stirred outrage when she broke down in tears on social media, claiming that she is tired of heartbreaks and wants to marry.
This was revealed in a video she shared on her TikTok profile, Brown Sugar.
In the video, the woman could be seen crying uncontrollably with visible tears on her cheeks.
The video also included a comment that clarified her situation: “I’m tired of heartbreaks, I want to marry.”
Not long after she published the post online, concerned readers flooded the comment section to express their opinions.
