Nigerian woman advises single ladies over 30 to focus on having children

• In a TikTok video, she urged single women over 30 to release societal pressures and consider motherhood as their next step.

A Nigerian woman has encouraged single women aged 30 and older to prioritize motherhood over the pursuit of marriage.

In a video posted on her TikTok account, she urged these women to disregard societal expectations and view motherhood as a viable next step in their lives.

She expressed, “If you are a woman in your 30s and have not yet married, it may be time to set aside thoughts of marriage and focus on having a child.”

She further explained that many women feel pressured by societal norms, and when they fail to meet these expectations, they often become reluctant to enter into marriage.

The woman also highlighted several reasons why it is beneficial for women to consider having children at an earlier age.

As the video gained popularity, numerous viewers took to the comments section to share their thoughts and reactions.

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Reacting to the post…

@exp ventures: “all this online advisers, a lady at 30 is still very young.”

@hopemanfx: “I met a girl 33yrs. I begged her for pregnancy before marriage.. she refused.. I even set aside 3m for marriage she still refused. what are ur view???.”

@Maxwell: “Many married people wish they are still single. You will definitely do better in life being single than getting married. stop over hyping marriage ok.”

@Apostle Ikechukwu: “I met a 42yr old lady my uncle of 54 wants to marry she said my fresh uncle from America is too old for her lol.”

@LORDKEMET .GOD.: “I talk to one about relationship she’s 34 she say she go think about it I laugh.”

@China: “I have a friend but she’s (late)now that is 36 years that was married and left the marriage because of his husband’s family no child at her age.once you are up to 30 try and have a is not a bad thing.”

@🇬🇧IAmTollyLondon🤍💋🇬🇧: “Some women have pcos which is a struggle to get pregnant also. And for a man to stay with such a situation is hard.”

@Kunlejohnson: “I use to tell them, its pardonable if u dont marry but not pardonable if u are childless…Wen old age comes, u’ll knw d importance of children.”

@xy-mascot.: “Forget about love, just try get baby. You yourself, you love man? no be money and standard you dey find? everybody should forget abt love.”