Former BBNaija housemate and chef Uriel Oputa recently offered advice to women about their relationships with men on her Instastories.
She emphasized that a man will only stay if he wants to, and no amount of nagging, pleading, or intimacy can change that.
Uriel explained that men are wired to make decisions about commitment in a more direct way.
While women often consider emotions and shared dreams, men typically decide quickly whether they want to be in a relationship or not.
Uriel mentioned that men are naturally drawn to finding solutions and results, which influences their views on relationships.
Their commitment usually hinges on decisions made early, and it’s tough to change their minds once they’re set.
She focuses on self-worth, motivating women to understand when a relationship isn’t right and to appreciate their own worth.
“A man will only stay if he wants to stay. No amount of nagging, pleading, or intimacy will change that. Why? Let me explain.
Men are wired differently when it comes to commitment. psychologically, they tend to be more straightforward in how they make decisions about relationships. While women often weigh emotions, shared experiences, and long-term dreams, men generally take a more binary approach: they’re either in or out from the start.”
“Men are biologically predisposed to focus on solutions and outcomes, and this affects how they see relationships too. Their commitment often comes down to what they’ve decided early on-no amount of bending over backward will change their mind if they’ve already made up their mind. So, ladies, remember: you can’t ‘convince’ someone to love you or stay if it isn’t what they already feel or want.”
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