Popular actress Uche Nnanna expresses her support for Yul Edochie’s first wife, May, as she shares harrowing experience from her polygamous background.
The thespian took to her Instagram page to show her support for the embattled mother of four who had stated that she would never accept being part of a polygamous family after her husband took in a second wife and declared himself a polygamist.
Uche revealed that she comes from a polygamous family and it would be the last thing she would want to wish her worst enemy.
According to her, the second wives in a polygamous family is always at war with the first, no matter how hard one tries to maintain cordiality in the home.
See her post below:
I will not be CAJOLED into accepting polygamy- May Edochie passionately appeals to husband, Yul following his public apology
May Yul Edochie, the first wife of actor Yul Edochie has finally reacted to his public apology to her.
In a lengthy post on her Instagram page, May appealed to him to allow them handle their issues privately as she wouldn’t want their kids to grow up and see such.
May Edochie reaffirmed that she wouldn’t be force into polygamy neither would she be numbered as it is against her religion.
However, she believes forgiveness is the most beautiful form and she has chosen to forgive him because of her mental health and inner peace.
She added that she is incapable of hating anyone especially the father of her children. However, she wouldn’t succumb to his demands to being numbered in a home they jointly built.
“I strongly believe that mistakes area major part of human existence. It is our response to these errors that count. I’m other words, forgiveness is one thing, and righting a wrong is another.
FORGIVENESS is the highest most beautiful form of love for me. There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love. Hence, my ability to forgive the mistakes of the past, present and future with respect to the issue on ground is in the interest of my mental health and inner peace.
I decided to stick to love…. Hate is too great a burden to bear. I am still very much incapable of HATING anyone,let alone the father of my children. The fact remains that anyone can choose to practice POLYGAMY, but can’t be impelled to accept what was never bargained for.
To reaffirm my stands, I will not be CAJOLED into accepting polygamy, which goes against my beliefs, faith and values.
I will not be NUMBERED in a home that we started building with love, faith, tears, hopes and prayers in a CATHOLIC marriage of 18 years following a long term premarital relationship.
This is also a passionate appeal to put an END to the constant “show” on the social media space were out kids are growing into unless it is absolutely necessary. Let’s prevent our lovely children from all the incessant drama series that might take a to on them directly or indirectly amongst their peers.
May GOD in His infinite mercy and compassion guide us all in the right direction.
Merry Christmas in advance everyone”.
