“Since October Last Year”- Wife Seeks Advice as Husband Says Nothing after He Caught Her Cheating in 2023

A lady has reported her husband to his family for failing to speak out when he discovered her infidelity.

Bolanle Cole, a human rights lawyer who posted the tale on X, explained that a client found his wife cheating and kept it a secret from her.

Instead, the husband stopped eating at home and avoided any sexual interaction with her, but he continued to meet his financial obligations.

When the puzzled woman realized her husband was aware of her adultery, she became unhappy because she couldn’t understand how he could remain so calm about it.

Bolanle went on to say that the woman reported her husband to their pastor, as well as his relatives. Her spouse instructed them to ask her what she did. Bolanle stated that the husband learned about his wife’s  infidelity in October 2023. 

He wrote: “A client caught his wife cheating on him and decided to keep it secret and not even inform the wife but he decided to stop eating at home, no sexual activities or whatsoever since October last year yet he carries out his financial responsibilities at home.

“The wife is mad, frustrated, depressed as she does know why the change of attitude from the man.

“She reported the man to his family, their pastor, the man told them to ask her what she did.”

The couple’s situation sparks reactions

@belovethchild7 said: “She will never confess unless you show her real evidence. Women are that hard.”

@Raph19406818 said: “That man is dangerous, run ooo.”

@AdeduluE said: “Smart move. What an intelligent man.”

@ebubec1 said: “The man is foolish, he done change him will. What if the woman kills him in his sleep? No need pretending, just move on.”

@zamani1581 said: “The woman don jam man wey pass man. “Woman and their ways of life if u did not I repeat if u did not show her evidence she will admit or accept she is the wan at fault.”

@Dan_phoster said: “Dam.n, can you imagine what the man is dealing with psychologically and still he keeps the responsibility , she’s learning the hard way I guess.”