Nigerian pastor Deborah Emmanuel Omale has given a stern caution to women, urging them to make sure that their dowry is settled before cohabiting with any man.
The clergywoman declared that women who reside with men without a customary bride price are essentially assigning themselves to the role of “house help”.
She proceeded to elaborate that men who are unwilling to fulfill the bride price requirement may not prioritize the relationship’s longevity.
In her opinion, these men might end up leaving for another woman when it’s time to make the relationship official.
During her speech, Pastor Deborah also emphasized the importance of women taking proactive steps to address their situation before it escalates.
The clergywoman’s advice has ignited a flurry of responds online, with many women weighing in and sharing their perspectives, ranging from agreement to playful humor.
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Netizens Reactions…
@OZIOMA said: “Chioma was living with Davido born 3children.”
@ABUJA-NICKY’S APPAREL said: “For man way Dey feed me for this economy make una Dey talk truth abeg.”
@linda said: “mummy u no quick talk oooo I just cook banga soup n Starch now.”
@irenelin67 added: “Mummy you for talk this thing on time nah i done already dey move my things small small.”
@ebubenwa13 said: “me like this am not parking anything.”
@Alum Chimdindu Princess said: “Even without being told, why stay with a man that is not your husband.”
@Evelyn said: “Under no circumstances should anyone tell you what to do.”
@William elenwo said: “my plan but I never still see woman.”
@Rora.ng said: “I had a child for him at 20, moved in with him 26, not up to a year he proposed and bride price paid. I’m 27 now…what works for you might not work for any one! It’s like as I moved in, it hastened It.”
@Ice creamy asked: “Pls what of the person dat goes from her house to wash clothes n cook.”
@LaDy LiZzle said: “She don secure her own husband oo de advice yeye davido no marry chioma after 3 kids ?.”
@Ariksfresh said: “That’s true ooo, that’s the biggest mistake I made now na like beg I dey beg am make we go registry.”
