Speed Darlington, a Nigerian musician and internet personality, sparked debate by expressing his thoughts on how African men interact with women who already have children from another man.
Speed Darlington, known for his amusing remarks, suggested that most African men are hesitant to marry women who have children, labelling those who do as “weak” and implying a perceived inadequacy in their sexual performance.
Speed Darlington believes that “no real man” would want to raise children who are not biologically his own.
Speed Darlington discusses African men’s attitudes towards single mothers.
The singer argued that the potential disappointment and loss for men who invest in raising non-biological children are substantial, especially if these children later seek out their biological fathers.
His comments have triggered a range of reactions, with many disputing his views. Some women have taken to social media to counter Speed Darlington’s argument, sharing personal anecdotes of finding more suitors after having multiple children.
