- Nigerian optometrist Chioma Onwuelingo advises women married to “wicked men” to avoid having many children and strategically plan their exit from their marriage.
- On Wednesday, she provided advice on single parenting challenges and women who choose to leave their children with their ex-partners due to financial constraints.
Chioma Onwuelingo, a Nigerian optometrist, recently shared some thoughts on Facebook for women married to “wicked men.”
She suggested that they should think twice about having a lot of kids while figuring out how to leave the marriage.
On Wednesday, she talked about the struggles of single parenting and how some women end up leaving their kids with their ex-partners because they can’t afford to take care of them.
“Single parenting is hard, difficult, draining and mentally exhausting . But single parenting can teach you unimaginable strength, focus and can drive you to greatness,” she wrote.
”I will not LEAVE my child/children for any man. To any woman who choose to leave their offspring for their ex, you are courageous and I applaud you but I CANNOT
It doesn’t in any way make your decision WRONG, nor Validate mine above yours…. NEVER but I just don’t have the heart to do it
Some children have been left for these men and they neglected them to the point of kpaiing or permanent disability. While others turned out great
My advice is this, when you are with a Wicked man, do not birth MORE CHILDREN:
Plan your exit carefully
Get busy and start earning money
Look for help within your family and close friends
Finally don’t second guess yourself.
Be BOLD and do that which is right for you and for your cuties.”
