- Relationship expert, Blessing Okoro, has asked women why they are scared of divorce.
- some ladies outlined why women aren’t comfortable with divorce. They opined that African women have been programmed to believe they cannot survive without men in their lives
Relationship expert, Blessing Okoro, has asked women why they are scared of divorce.
Taking to her Instagram page, Blessing wrote;
”Why are you women always scared of DIVORCE??
Share your fears let me help you process it .
What scares you more about Divorce???
Self esteem?
Validation?
Loneliness?
Help?
Tell me ?”
Taking to her comment section, some ladies outlined why women aren’t comfortable with divorce. They opined that African women have been programmed to believe they cannot survive without men in their lives
See the replies below…
naddzoba: Fear of starting over , fear of the unknown and often times I think fear of having to face yourself or hold yourself accountable…… what are the things within you that is holding you back
healthyself_natural: Women have been raised to believe they are incomplete without a man, so alot of women feel very incomplete without a man, they will rather be unhappy as long as their is a man.. It is a very serious programming into women, that is why women who are breaking out of these programming are a threat to men and those who are protecting it..
beautyradiance_luxuryskincare: In my opinion na money o, if I’m really really loaded I’ll gladly walk away……
jenniferdamisa27: How to start over ?
What if we don’t make it ?
Loneliness at old age
If there is money there won’t be fear but imagine no money how do we get accommodation
How do we take care of ourselves
billstheodora: You saying why are women afraid of Divorce as if they are scared shouldn’t be the issue here,the issue here is that the man is saying upon everything he is doing for the lady,she is not showing appreciation and when you do show appreciation it will make the man to do more,ekene dike nke ome,ome gini. Omekwa ozor .Women should know how to appreciate their b/f husband and all that,trust me there won’t be problem,is only the proud ones,ndi feminist they are the big problem we have here.
When you appreciate them,,they will do more,I rem when boo bought me this iPhone 8+ in Benin you need to see how I was praising him at the phone place nd girls there was like hmmmm,appreciate your man o.
preciouspeters82: For some, it’s self esteem… a woman may feel she’s too old now and will nvr find a man….for others, it’s validation, and I’ve seen this one alot amongst is Nigerian women, everyone is getting married…from age 18, a girl is thinking about marriage and how she must be married to be validated…for others it’s loneliness… being used to always having a partner by Urside that it becomes almost impossible imagining a separation. From wat I’m seeing in this video, the man keeps complaining of peace but most times, when a partner is not happy in a relationship there cant be peace. Peace of mind is very important for both of them…if he’s not getting it, he should leave. If she finds herself in a relationship where the man is not bringing out the best in her…leave too… marriage is supposed to be a partnership, building each other up. Forget the social stigma, ur happiness is important, dnt die in marriage… ur soul and happiness is more important to God than ur need to stay in a toxic and traumatic environment.
