Chidinma Ekile, a Nigerian singer, has shared an important message with her millions of followers about the importance of limiting how one helps people.
The gospel singer expressed her displeasure with Davido’s popular catchphrase “We Rise By Lifting Others,” pointing out how one can fall by lifting others.
The fair-skinned singer advised her fans to limit the amount of assistance they provide to others. She also advised them to avoid doing too much and allowing anyone to guilt trip or manipulate them into accepting money.
“You can actually fall by lifting others, put a limit to how you help people. Don’t do too much, and never allow them guilt trip or manipulate you into getting money off you”.
Taking to the comment section, many concurred with her.
One Ladyque wrote, “Givers need to set limits because takers never get tired of taking
One Its Pretty Oprah wrote, “Exactly, and when you fall those people won’t remember when you helped them, they will only remember the bad things you’ve done
One Sossi Official wrote, “Takers will always take Dem no send your papa
One Amy Shine wrote, “Some people will drain you till you have nothing left. RUN from people who bill too much. They will make you go from grace to grass
One The Real Beth wrote, “Don’t help leeches! Help people with potential!! They’ll see it as an investment. The entitled ones would always drain you
One Ekeson Money wrote, “No be lie oo, gives don dey lack now